Fighting temptation

"Temptation is a persistent, subtle, sneaky, seducing liar and destroyer of your life. We all are engaged in a struggle between flesh and Spirit."

Fighting Temptation by Jewel Diamond Taylor

I'm sure this message isn't about you but maybe you know someone who is lost in drugs, pornography, gambling, shoplifting, telling lies, smoking, shopping, alcohol, food, cheating on their mate or their taxes. Some people find it difficult to let go of old and destructive habits. They rationalize, hide, make excuses and think just one more time won't matter. It does matter. Fight temptation. Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation leans on the doorbell. It wants to come in your life and take over. Temptation whispers your name and keeps you caught up in a game you can't win. Overcome the weaker self. Ask for help.

"God show me the way because the devil trying to break me down." Kanye West

We must be especially alert against the beginnings of temptation, for the enemy is more easily conquered if he is refused admittance to the mind and it is met at the door with faith, discipline, courage and a made up mind.

Someone once said, "If you don't want to slip, stay away from the slippery places."

Even though you know better and even though your intellect, common sense, family and spiritual values tell that you shouldn't ______________________ (fill in the blank with that issue you're struggling with)...your ego, flesh and emotional cravings are used to having, feeling and doing what goes against your highest good. Why??? Because you metabolize experiences just like you metabolize food. You crave and become addicted to certain experiences, feelings and people that give you a temporary high or hiding place from your pain.
When your weaker self is craving what will harm you spiritually, emotionally, financially and physically...don't continue rationalizing, making excuses and giving into your weaknesses. You are hurting yourself and those who love you. You have a choice. If you're sick and tired of being sick and tired; if you are hearing the deep call unto the deep; if you are desiring inner strength and success...you can do it. It is possible. You don't have to remain in misery. You don't have to continue making the wrong choices. Once you see and admit that you are victimizing yourself and keeping yourself in a vicious cycle, it is the beginning of your breakthrough. Whether the emotional craving is spending, eating, shoplifting, drinking, drugs, a toxic relationship, cheating and creeping, gambling, ego trips or depression, you can turn your life around. Stomp on the enemy. Take small steps toward your victory or just stop right now...TODAY! Let nothing or no one weaken your walk to recovery, peace or salvation. Once you decide...God will provide. ~ Jewel Diamond Taylor

"Remember that the temptations that come into your life are no different from what others experience. And God is faithful. He will keep the temptation from becoming so strong that you can't stand up against it. When you are tempted, he will show you a way out so that you will not give in to it." 1 Corinthians 10:13

CLOSER
Lamar Campbell & Spirit of Praise (When I Think About You)

Verse I:
Oh Lord I felt your presence when I open my eyes this morning
I remember how we started the day together.
Somehow it drifted on.
I need to feel your presence all through the day.
Sometimes I get weak and I want to stray.

Chorus:
So I start all over again.
Please Lord give me another chance.
Today I want to be closer to you than I've ever been before.

Verse II:
Oh Lord, it's my desire just to please You in all, in all that I do.
Lord I want to walk like You, yes, I want to talk just like You.
I want to live holy just like You tell me to.
Oh there are times I must admit I fall a little short of your word.
That's the times I call running and crying Lord help me just to make it,
just to make it through.

"Most people want to be delivered from temptation but would like it to keep in touch." ~Robert Orben

"Those who flee temptation generally leave a forwarding address." ~Lane Olinghouse

Most Precious Lord Jesus, gentle and wonderful God, truly awesome and ever-present help ...there are times when it seems I cannot stand against the forces of temptation. However, I realize if I am helpless against temptation then I am helpless only because I have given up and I have decided I cannot fight back.
I realize I am helpless against temptation only when I try to use my own power and my own will rather than seeking your power and your will to help me.
With just my own power I am helpless to fight against the sinister power that wants to drive me into the ground by urging, cajoling, and drawing me into doing what I know I should not do.
By your power and by your love for me, I want the power to stand against temptation and I now ask you to help me push against temptation.
By your power and by your love for me, I know I do not have to be alone in fighting back against temptation.
By your power and by your love for me, I know you are with me and I will push back against any temptations begging me to do wrong things.
By your power and by your love for me, when I combine my will and your will, when both of us push back against temptation in unity, no power of temptation can overcome me.
By your power and by your love for me, when my hands and your hands push against the dark urgings of my soul then both of us can defeat the forces of failure that want me to fall.
By your power and by your love for me, I understand I must push with all my might against the darkness lurking about me.
All these things I humbly pray in the name of my most Blessed Lord Jesus Christ, my Mighty God, and my Ever-present Holy Spirit upon whom I can rely.
Amen

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OVERCOMING PORN Kirk Franklin's Freedom

By Shannon Woodland and Scott Ross

CBN.com – Kirk Franklin has sold more than 10 million albums in less than 10 years. He's a three-time GRAMMY Award winner and a seven-time Dove Award winner. His hit "Stomp" from the triple-platinum album God's Property made him a star amongst the MTV crowd. But Kirk's career came to a screeching halt a few years ago when his private-or should we say secret-life was no longer a secret. Kirk came clean and confessed his addiction to pornography in this interview with Scott Ross.
KIRK FRANKLIN: There's always the boy who has the big brother who has the magazine under his bed. That's how it starts. So the first time I ever saw one, I was around 8 or 9. I saw my first magazine, and from there I was addicted.

SCOTT ROSS: Did you bring that into the marriage?

KIRK FRANKLIN: Yes, I did.

SCOTT ROSS: Was she aware of it?

KIRK FRANKLIN: Not the first year but the second year.

SCOTT ROSS: (to Tammy) When did you find out?

TAMMY FRANKLIN: (Kirk's wife): Once he realized that he was having problems, he just came to me and he said-

KIRK FRANKLIN: -No, no, no, Baby. Let's aim to make it more real. Let's aim to keep it real. I tried to when we got married because I still had those single male ways.

TAMMY FRANKLIN: I would say in our second year of marriage he tried to implement it into our marriage-'Watch this with me, Honey.' It made me feel dirty. It didn't make our intimacy sacred. I would say, 'I'm not watching.' I would get angry. 'I'm not watching that with you.'

SCOTT ROSS: (reporting): Kirk's secret life ran amuck while he traveled to promote his latest releases. At home Tammy had no idea of the extent of Kirk's problem.

TAMMY FRANKLIN: I didn't see any evidence that he was doing it at home. He knew how I felt about it so…

KIRK FRANKLIN: But I was.

TAMMY FRANKLIN: …I would think that he was hiding it from me.

SCOTT ROSS: So you had a secret life?

KIRK FRANKLIN: Yeah, I was doing it at home. When she was asleep, I would go upstairs.

SCOTT ROSS: How did you finally get to a point where this thing has got to be dealt with?

KIRK FRANKLIN: We were in Los Angeles. We were in the bed that morning in the hotel, and we were lying there, and I said, 'Baby, I need to tell you something. I'm struggling with pornography. I mean, it is a struggle and I have a problem with pornography. It's a problem.'

SCOTT ROSS: And your response, Tammy?

TAMMY FRANKLIN: My response was to immediately be sensitive. What blessed me was he did look at it as a problem. A lot of guys, it's normal for a man-

SCOTT ROSS: -It's a man thing.

TAMMY FRANKLIN: Yeah, it's a man thing. The fact that he wasn't coming to me like that blessed me so that I just began to pray for him consistently. I knew that I wanted him to know that this is something I wanted to work through.

SCOTT ROSS: Together?

TAMMY FRANKLIN: Together.

KIRK FRANKLIN: That's what so weird about porn. You have different people even in the Body feeling differently about it. There are some Christian men I know who say, 'I'd rather do that than cheat on my wife.' I've had to shed light on, 'Dude, 'We're cheating on our wives because whatever a man thinketh, so is he'.

SCOTT ROSS: You have a woman now who's willing to walk it through with you. What about the people who are in it now? You are leaving this secret life. You're scared to death somebody will find out about it.

KIRK FRANKLIN: It's weird because you're talking about the dude who was the minister of music at a church when I was 11. I have to check myself because there's an anger that rises up in me. I get evangelically ticked off by the fact that I wished somebody would have taught me a long time ago about the repercussions of sex and flesh and lust and vanity and pride and ego. I wished somebody would have been holding my little behind accountable years ago. But let me tell you what happens to the gifted. The gifted in the church slip right through.

SCOTT ROSS: Why?

KIRK FRANKLIN: Because the gifted are able to naturally and emotionally control the atmosphere of the service.

SCOTT ROSS: So we relate to you based on the gift rather than the man?

KIRK FRANKLIN: There you go, brother. No one asks the minister of music whether he's killing when everyone is crying and speaking in tongues. Nobody asks him, 'Are you going home tonight? How's your marriage? What's going on with you and your wife?' Nobody's holding the gifted accountable in the Body.

SCOTT ROSS: (reporting): Even though Kirk's wife knew about his problem and prayed for him, no one held him accountable. That is until he met Pastor Tony Evans, a man who wasn't dazzled by Kirk's celebrity.

KIRK FRANKLIN: When I first went to his church, it was 1998, and I had an album out called Stomp. I was traveling to Dublin, Ireland, doing songs with Bono, I was getting flowers from Arsenio Hall, I was getting letters from Mike Tyson, I was hanging out with Denzel and all these big time celebrities, and I was walking on a TV pilot for ABC.

SCOTT ROSS: I'm impressed, man! I didn't realize you were that famous.

KIRK FRANKLIN: You know it's all that garbage. None of that junk you can take to heaven, but I was bathing in it. And a lot of my Christian community was bathing in it with me.

SCOTT ROSS (reporting): But when Kirk and his family started attending Pastor Evan's church, Kirk didn't receive the same treatment he was accustomed to.

TONY EVANS: You come here the same way everyone comes here-through the Cross. At the Cross the ground is very level, so you're treated like everyone else. We recognize your gifts. We honor people. The Bible says to give honor where honor is due. But there's only one celebrity. That's Jesus Christ.

KIRK FRANKLIN: But Tony Evans, he didn't care who I was. If I didn't get there in enough time, I would sit where everybody else sat. I got mad at it, but then there was something that was pulling me to it. I was crying out to be disciplined. I called him one night and told him that I needed help, I have a problem.

TONY EVANS: Since the sexual area so defines men and is so accessible to men, it's easily reached after as a defining point. It has to do with who you are and if you're really a man, all of this wrong definition. Once we can clarify a person's identification in Christ, and once we can help them to understand how to walk in the Spirit, they can discover that the law of the Spirit is indeed greater than the law of the flesh.

SCOTT ROSS (reporting): Kirk told Pastor Evans everything. In turn, this helped Kirk be honest with the people who mattered most in his life.

SCOTT ROSS: (to Kirk) And that started the journey to healing with Tammy.

(to Tammy): You saw the change in the man?

TAMMY FRANKLIN: Definitely.

SCOTT ROSS: And he's clean now?

TAMMY FRANKLIN: (half serious) You clean?

KIRK FRANKLIN: Four years.

SCOTT ROSS: So people can get free, but they have to admit they have the problem and they have to come clean with somebody who'll hold them accountable.

TAMMY FRANKLIN: There's a process.

KIRK FRANKLIN: If I have been set free from this one, anybody can be set free because I questioned for years whether I could be set free. Dude, I was doing albums, albums that people were getting blessed by, and I was struggling with pornography. "Why We Sing" came out in '93, and I was struggling with pornography. Stomp came out in '97, and I was struggling with pornography. These albums God was speaking through and everyone was getting their victory except for me. I used to question and almost began to wonder, What's going on? What was happening, and this might help people: my victory didn't come by my emotional experience; my victory came through truth. When I was taught truth, that's when I got my freedom.

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