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How to cope with change |
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SHIFT HAPPENS: Life is Subject to Change
Without Notice
and Without Your Permission My first fight with God happened when my mother lost her battle with breast cancer in 1985. In spite of the prayers, denial and bargaining with God, I became a Motherless child. I wasn't prepared for that type of change, pain and loss in my life.
Since that dark time, I’ve had many more experiences of dealing with unwelcomed change. I grew to understand what the stage play “Your Arms Are Too Short to Box with God” really meant. I have resisted change and had many more spiritual battles with God. I’ve grown now to understand over the years that I didn’t lose the fights… I learned tremendous life lessons.
Sometimes change is needed but you want to hold on in spite of the writing on the wall. The need to change or let go can be obvious, inevitable and the signs are everywhere to be seen and heard. You may be resisting it with all your might in fear of the unknown or the need to have what's comfortable and familiar remain status quo.
you to stop procrastinating...stop being silent...stop closing your eyes...stop the craziness in your life...stop resisting the cycles of life...stop putting yourself in harm's way...stop allowing the enemy to trick you...stop focusing your time and energy on the wrong priorities...stop and get off the tracks.
Or unexpected change can hit you on the blind side and you say to yourself, “I didn’t even see that coming!”
A big question is …”Why do so many people stay on the tracks when they see a train coming?” I think it’s because individuals inherently despise change or they think they can control the train! Those who are proactive, anticipate change, and act quickly, get off the tracks and become passengers on another train. Resisting by closing your eyes or sitting on the tracks is a dangerous position.
Everybody gets hit with life changes. Everybody will experience some form of a life passage (career change, health issue, mid-life crisis, death of a loved one, caring for an elderly parent, divorce, moving to a new city, or a financial setback).
You can learn to minimize the pain of change by strengthening your personal infrastructure and increasing your faith to endure and adapt to life changes.
Whether you are choosing change in your life or change is choosing you, this book is guaranteed to encourage and empower you to cope and adapt to change in a positive and productive way. order today "It's not so much that we're afraid of change or so in love with the old ways, but it's that place in between that we fear . . . . It's like being between trapezes. It's Linus when his blanket is in the dryer. There's nothing to hold on to." ~ Marilyn Ferguson
"Change.
It has the power to uplift, to heal, to stimulate,
surprise, open new doors, bring fresh experience and
create excitement in life. Certainly it is worth the
risk. " "The truth is that our finest moments are most likely to occur when we are feeling deeply uncomfortable, unhappy, or unfulfilled. For it is only in such moments, propelled by our discomfort, that we are likely to step out of our ruts and start searching for different ways or truer answers." ~ M. Scott Peck "Everything must change. Nothing and no one remains the same." popular song
To everything there
is a season, and a time to every purpose under
heaven:
If nothing ever changed, there'd be no butterflies.
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